A Tarot reading for R. C
Your questions are:
Will he commit to me permanently?
How is the future looking?
Will he choose me over his family?
The Double 5 Tarot spread

Position 1: what is happening now in your life
There are two cards in this position: the 7 of Cups and the Moon from the Major Arcana. The 7 of Cups is the card of indecision when you don’t know what to choose, what to do in order to solve a life situation.
The Moon always shows that the situation is unstable and blurred. The situation is confusing and fluctuates all the time: one day life is good and we start hoping for good times, but during the next day the situation will change and we will become sad again.
Because I see the 7 of Cups here, there is message for you: you must make up your mind and decide what you want to do. Without your decision nothing will change and the situation will continue to fluctuate and confuse you all the time.

Position 2: what you want or expect or want from life
In position 2 there are two cards: the Justice from the Major Arcana and the 10 of Swords. The Justice is the card of order and balance in life. You want things and situations to come into balance and order. Right now the situation is in disorder and this makes you sad.
Your sadness is show by the killed person who is bleeding (10 of Swords). This is also the card of depression when a person is deeply depressed and is literally bleeding out emotional pain.
The 10 of Swords shouts: “I am in horrible pain and I cannot take life anymore. I want this situation that is causing me pain to end.”

Position 3: that which you have to realise
There are 2 cards in this position: the Tower from the Major Arcana and the 9 of Cups. These cards hold a strong message for you: that your chosen one is most probably the wrong man for you.
This is because: the 9 of Cups is the card of joy in life. If you want to be happy and live a happy life, you must demolish the existing reality and start living a brand new life.
How to demolish the existing reality? By leaving your chosen one and letting life bring you a new partner who does not resist being together with you and who is willing to commit to you.

Position 4: your future 3 months ahead from now
Your feelings of love will be overflowing. This is shown by the Ace of Cups. We also see the 3 of Wands. The 3 of Wands is the card of delay. This card shows a stormy see and ships trying to come closer to the harbour.
A man is waiting for the ships to come into the harbour, but the stormy see prevents the ships from reaching the harbour. That is why this is the card of delay.
The joy that you seek is shown by the 3 of Cups. The change to the better is shown by the Wheel of fortune from the Major Arcana. These are all good cards, but the card of delay spoils the whole atmosphere (the 3 of Wands).
This means that after 3 months the situation in your life will be the same: no change to the better.

Position 5: your future 6 months ahead from now
Here too, there is a certain card that spoils the atmosphere: its the 5 of Wands. The 5 of Wands means = clash of intentions, conflicts, competition.
The 5 of Wands has to do with the mother I think. There might be a competition for love. Whom is he supposed to choose? You? Or the mother?
I do not think he can chop of his attachments to his mother. She will be always present in the picture of your life and rob you of his attention and love.
The World from the Major Arcana is the card of success and recognition. In your case its about recognition in the eyes of the one you love. But this card become spoiled because of the 5 of Wands.
So, recognition will be hard to obtain from him. There are two Queens in this position. In between these two Queens is the 5 of Wands. The Queens are you and the mother. You two will continue to compete with each other for his love and recognition.
Even after 6 months, you will not win his love, because the mother will keep competing with you.

Position 6: your future 1 year from now
You will obtain very little “harvest” of love from this relationship with him. The small harvest is shown by the Princess of Pentacles. The Princess is a child according to the Tarot and this card is always connected to a small yield of something desired.
The 7 of Wands means = our own choice or that which our heart desires. So, that which your heart desires will not come easily to you and you will continue to struggle for his attention and love.
The Temperance from the Major Arcana always points out that we might need to dilute our wanting, because what we desire will not unfold easily.
The Queen of Swords shows up here. This is the card of courage and resilience. You will need these qualities (courage and resilience) to face the situation that will unfold after one year.
Conclusion
Your questions are:
Will he commit to me permanently?
No, it does not look like that, because you have a competitor (his mother). She will compete with you and pull him away from you. I suspect that she is brainwashing him too. This might be the case, but we do not know for certain.
How is the future looking?
You will continue to struggle in order to get his full attention and love.
Will he choose me over his family? No, it does not look like that. After one year you will have a need to dilute your wanting to obtain his love.
The expanded Celtic Cross

Position 1: what is happening now
Position one is in the upper part of the picture and it consists of two cards: the Alchemist (Magician) from the Major Arcana and the 5 of Cups.
The 5 of Cups means disappointment, sadness, grief and bitterness. This is what you are going through right now. The Alchemist shows that you are trying to find a solution to the problems in your love life.
Position 2: what is bothering you now
We see the Star card from the Major Arcana in this position. This card is connected to hope. Should you continue to hope that the relationship will work? Will he be with you? You are guessing and hoping to have a good future together with him.
The 10 of Cups means family joy. You want a joyful relationship with him: a relationship that works and makes you happy.

Position 3: your dominant thoughts.
You think predominantly of receiving his attention, recognition and love. This is show by two cards in this position. The first card is the World from the Major Arcana.
This cards means success, recognition, praise, admiration and victory over difficulties in life. This card shows what you so much desire.
The second card is the 6 of Wands. It has similar meanings: success, admiration and recognition in the eyes of others. You want to win his love.

Position 4: Unconscious thoughts, desires and actions.
You are in need of support in life. This is shown by the Hierophant card from the Major Arcana. The man you love is like your support in life, but next to the Hierophant we see a bad card: 3 of Swords.
The 3 of Swords shows a bleeding heart, because the heart has been pierced by 3 Swords. You want support in life, but the man is slow to commit and the condition of your relationship makes you sad.

This position shows events that took place some 1 or 2 months ago. I see a witch in this position (The high priestess). This card could also mean that the spells were still active during this time.
There is also the Queen of Swords in this position. I do not understand why this card is here. This card shows upon qualities like courage and resilience. This card could mean that you were trying to maintain the relationship as good as you could.

Position 6: your nearest future (1 month from now).
Something in connection to your relationship or some events will be in progress. This is shown by the Empress from the Major Arcana. This card means “process in development”.
The 8 of Pentacles shows that whatever is happening now will continue to happen for a while. No big changes will happen in your relationship.

Position 7: your future 3 months ahead from now.
These cards do not give off a happy vibe. 5 of Swords means: stress; the control over the situation is not lost yet, but there is no triumph over the situation in sight.
The Death card from the Major Arcana does not show physical death (that somebody will die), but it shows that a situation is coming to an end. There are other cards here too.
The 9 of Cups is the card of joy and optimism. The Death card kills joy and optimism. There is one more card: King of Cups. This card means emotional discord.
So after 3 months your relationship will still not work as you want it to work. There are too many cards here that show your emotional condition: the absence of joy and optimism.

Position 8: your surroundings
It looks like you do not have any support in life. You lack people who could guide you out of difficulties in your relationship with the man.
Position 9: your hopes are fears
Here we see the Queen of Pentacles. This card means: a well off woman who lives a comfortable life with regard to support in life and money. Women always feel more secure when they have a man in their life. You want support in the form of a man.

Position 10: your future after 6 months.
There is a “fruitless” card here: the 9 of Wands. You will put lots of effort and energy into the relationship with the man you love, but you will not obtain any results.
Here we see some cards of emotional tension: the Princess of Swords. The emotional tension could be experiences as a fear of loosing the man and the need to begin a new emotional life (to forget him).
The new emotional life is shown by the Princess of Cups. There is also the Justice card from the Major Arcana here. This is the card of order and balance. In this position this card shows that there might be emotional turbulence and that you will have a need to come into emotional balance.

Position 11: your future 1 year from now.
The 2 of Swords shows up here. It shows a blindfolded woman and she cannot see into the future, because there are no possibilities in the future. This card is not good to see in this position.
This card could mean that the relationship will not work as you want it to work. The 2 of Swords cancels out the card of joy (the 3 of Cups).
We also see the card of rehabilitation and healing after injuries: the 4 of Swords. A dysfunctional relationship can injure us a lot. Most probably, during this time, you will be very tired and try to heal your nerves.
The Sun card shows up after the healing card. The Sun card is the card of joy and success and its also a card of movement forward in life. All these cards could mean that the relationship will not work and you or he will put it on standby for a while.
Conclusion
Your questions are:
Will he commit to me permanently?
No, it does not look like that. The relationship will not flow with ease and even after 1 year, you will still not be able to obtain his commitment.
How is the future looking?
You will continue to struggle in order to get his full attention and love. It is also possible that after 3 months there will be difficulties in the relationship. The difficulties will persist and be there even after 1 year.
Will he choose me over his family? No, it does not look like that. After one year you will have a need to dilute your wanting to obtain his love.